BY Ashley Read
“Anything you to do to stretch yourself out of
your comfort zone will ultimately enable you to take larger risks and grow.”
I’m sure
we’ve all read plenty of quotes and articles about the importance of escaping
your comfort zone, but what exactly is a comfort zone? What are the benefits of
escaping from our comfort zone? And, how do you actually escape from it?
What is a comfort zone?
Your
comfort zone is an artificial mental boundary, which gives you a sense of
security and feelings of — well — comfort. Within this artificial comfort zone,
everything is routine, familiar and safe.
Inside our
comfort zone we rarely seem pushed, unlock our full potential or achieve what
we’re capable of. Often, people will stay in a job or relationship just because
of its familiarity, security and the fact that the unknown can seem extremely
daunting. After all, why break a routine if it’s comfortable?
Though the
comfort zone is an artificial boundary, there’s plenty of research and science
to back its existence and effects on human performance.
Reaching
Optimal Performance
Have you
even been in a situation where the pressure has been on you? Maybe a
presentation to your boss or a potential client; a first date with someone you
really want to impress or an impending deadline you see as impossible?
I think
we’ve all been in one of those situations (or similar) at some point in our
lives. Just when you feel the last thing you need is a bit of anxiety or some
last minute nerves, they kick in; you start to question yourself and fear the
worst; What if I don’t finish this work in time? What if she doesn’t like me?
It may feel like the end of the world is approaching, but actually, a little
anxiety is a good thing.
Just
outside of our comfort zone lays a space called “optimal anxiety,” it’s a sweet
spot of human performance and place where we’re motivated to succeed. Similar
to an athlete who has just prepared and warmed up for a big game, optimal
anxiety is the space where we are ready to perform at our best.
Yerkes
Dodson Law Graph
The theory
that anxiety can aid performance is not something new, the idea goes back to at
least 1908 when Robert Yerkes and John Dodson released a study showing that
arousal (anxiety) increased performance. The study also shows that only certain
levels of arousal are good for performance, too much has the opposite effect
and is detrimental to performance. Therefore, pushing ourselves too hard, too
often can also create a notion that challenging ourselves is a negative thing
and re-enforce our desire to stay within our comfort zone.
Why Leave Your Comfort Zone?
Your
comfort zone isn’t a bad thing; it’s far from it. We all need a space where we
can relax, feel at ease and comfortable. So why should we push ourselves
outside of our comfort zone from time to time?
You can achieve more than your
wildest dreams:
Sometimes a
dream can seem a step too far and unachievable. Often this will put us off
chasing the dream and we’ll settle for the mediocre (or what is achievable
within our comfort zone).
As
illustrated by this inforgraphic from Marcus Taylor, as we push ourselves
outside of our comfort zone into optimal anxiety and our ‘growth zone’
challenges will become easier and our comfort zone expands.
Ben
Tremblay / Growing the Comfort Zone
Eventually,
things that previously scared us will become part of our growth zone, then move
into our comfort zone, thus helping us achieve more than we previously thought
possible.
You’ll lead
a more fulfilled life
Comfort can
lead to laziness, and as we’ve already touched on stepping outside of our
comfort zone can lead to heightened activity and optimal performance.
Comfort may
feel good in the short term, but as Ran Zilca, explains on Psychology Today,
sacrificing productivity for comfort may lead to regrets in the long run.
“We live in
a society where comfort has become a value and a life goal. But comfort reduces
our motivation for introducing important transformations in our lives. Sadly,
being comfortable often prohibits us from chasing our dreams. Many of us are
like lions in the zoo: well-fed but sit around passively stuck in a reactive
rut. Comfort equals boring shortsightedness, and a belief that things cannot
change. Your comfort zone is your home base, a safe place not to stay in, but
to return to, after each exhausting and exhilarating expedition through the
wilderness of life. Take a look at your life today, if you are enjoying a
shelter of comfort, break through it and go outside where life awaits.”
You’ll deal with change better
Sometimes
we’re forced to leave our comfort without any choice. The more you push yourself
to do things you wouldn’t normally do and experienced uncertainty in a
controlled manner, the better you’ll be able to deal with un-expected
situations as they arise.
You’ll be more creative
Pushing our
boundaries, new experiences and learning new skills are great ways to inspire
and educate ourselves. With new experiences and leanings behind us we can start
to look at old problems in new ways and come up with new creative solutions.
How to step outside of your comfort zone
Whatever
goal you’re trying to achieve there’s no doubt at some stage you’ll have to
make a move that feels uncomfortable and step out of your comfort zone at some
point. There are plenty of ways to step outside of your comfort zone and extend
your boundaries. Here are some ways you can do so, and help yourself become
more productive and escape whatever has been holding you back:
Change your daily routine
Most of us
have a set daily routine, by making small changes to this we can push ourselves
to step outside of our comfort zone. You don’t have to make huge changes; small
subtle differences in your day-to-day routine can be enough to change your
perspective.
If you run
everyday, you could push yourself to go an extra mile tomorrow. If you get a
coffee every morning before work, why not try a new flavour or get a fresh
fruit juice instead.
Think big, but take small steps
Maybe you
want to start your own business or quit your day job to pursue your passions.
These may seem like unattainable goals, you may fear making a bold move, but if
approached in small steps you can slowly push the boundaries of what you feel
is possible.
As Lewis
Howes explains in this Forbes article, “If your goal is to “start a
business” — change it to “interview one business owner.”” By taking an initial
step outside your comfort zone will help you move towards your greater goal.
Look forward to the outcome, whatever happens
Fear of
failure can be a big reason we stay within our comfort zones. If you want to
achieve something go for it, if you dream of climbing a mountain, then give it
a try. As Noah Kagan explains in his interview with Internet Marketing Party,
“Roughly 86% of what we do fails. But eventually the 14% works, and that’s what
everyone else sees.”
Leaving
your comfort zone isn’t about getting something right first time, it’s about
extending your horizons and allowing yourself to grow — no matter what the
iniatial results may be.
Try new things
Over at
Physcology Today, Alex Lickerman explains, “New things or a new way of thinking
is often frightening. But if you think about it, most of the things we fear
don’t actually come to pass. What’s more, we’re often unable to anticipate the
good things that do occur as a result of our trying something new.”
Try new
things can be as simple as new foods or bigger things like travelling to new
places, taking a new class or learning a new language.
What have you done that’s taken you outside of your comfort zone?
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